Do you or someone you know suffer from depression?

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? Hopefully not, but the odds are good that all of us will be touched by depression at some point in our lives. There are things you can do to help. This article is intended to provide some tips for dealing with this serious problem.

Be realistic about your life goals and expectations. Some say that depression comes from setting and trying for goals that are unachievable. When you fail to reach your goal, your inner self becomes angry and frustrated, then becomes frozen. A clue to this type of behavior is goal-setting that always starts out great, then peters out to nothing, leaving you feeling bad. Readjust your goals, and learn to work on realistic chunks that let you make small daily progress achievements so you can feel good about yourself.

Examine your life. If you are unhappy because you feel like you are being walked on, focus on becoming more assertive. If you find yourself assuming people are thinking badly of you, remind yourself that you are not a mind-reader and that you have no basis for that belief. Keep it light and humorous, as you cannot battle negative thoughts with more negativity.

In addition to a healthy diet you should also invest in starting some kind of exercise that you enjoy. This can be something as simple as regular walks or even something as organized as a team sport. This will help you to feel better physically and will probably have effects on your mental life as well.

A simple walk around your block can be a wonderful mood elevator and a way to get those happy endorphins working to your advantage. If you have forgotten the joy of walking, then take your dog (or borrow one from a neighbor) and focus on his joy and antics for a few minutes. Getting out in your neighborhood keeps you in touch with what is going on around you and helps you take the focus off yourself for awhile.

One way to deal with depression is to fake it till you make it. Try to act as though you are not depressed. Really give it a good try and force yourself too. Imagine that you are not depressed and eventually it will come to pass. Basically you are tricking your mind, because if you do it enough, your brain will not know that it is depressed.

To be ready for the next time you need a mood boost, make a list of things that will cheer you up, and put that list in one place. Include things that cheer you up, like your favorite movies, books or CDs. Or write down little activities to do, such as talking a walk or working on a project.

Eat the right foods. Eating overly processed and chemically treated foods can make your body feel unhealthy and used. Staying with organically grown and healthy choices can make your body feel as it really should. When your body feels great, your mind will follow, so make the right choices to feel better.

Being depressed does not mean you are not sane. While many people may see this as an onset to a much greater mental illness, it is a normal reaction to the craziness that goes on around you daily. Your goal should be to accept and address the real concerns in your life, such as the symptoms of your depression, and forget tension about your mental state.

Try something new. Depressed people are often doing too much thinking. Take a break from your thoughts and your depression by starting something you have never done. Take up cooking or gardening or any number of activities that you never thought you'd try. This way, you'll be concentrating on something else and the depression can't quite, take a hold.

Never stop a medication on your own. Many people will start a new medication when they are feeling down then immediately stop taking it when they are feeling better. This is a terrible idea as it can actually cause you to feel even worse than you did initially. Always consult a doctor before stopping.

Stop rewarding bad behavior. Many times someone who is depressed will wallow in self-pity, allowing others to coddle them and take care of their responsibilities. Others abuse drugs, alcohol, sex, and food as a way to feel better temporarily. All of these behaviors do not help the depression in any way other than a temporary fix. Take away the rewards and the depressed person can focus on the root of the depression.

Oftentimes, depression kicks in if you are experiencing the pain of losing a relationship with a loved one. If you have just experienced a break-up, the bright side is that your life will improve in time. Try not to look at past relationships as failures but rather as an opportunity to learn skills that will be helpful for your next relationship. Keep in mind that your value comes from within and not who you are with. So cheer up, the best is yet to come!

One way to combat depression is to help yourself feel good. It sounds simple, but when life has gotten to the point that you find it difficult to get out of bed and get dressed in the morning, no matter how difficult or tiring it may be, hop in that shower and pick out a flattering outfit to wear for the day. Looking good will help you to feel good as well.

To assist with managing depression, examine your diet and what you are eating on a regular basis. Junk food is filled with preservatives and sugars which does not provide natural energy to the body. Fresh fruits and vegetables will give the body the nutrients and vibrancy needed to help focus on lifting your mood.

For too long, our society has stigmatized mood disorders, and people have gone without treatment. Increasingly we can discuss these matters openly. With that change comes the opportunity to learn from each others' experiences and use advice, such as that found in this article, to make the lives of depression sufferers and their loved ones a little easier.